We do fail majorly in one point of life, accept it!!
I was losing faith in people & world. Saw no point in working hard which I put in. Basically, I wanted to quit even before things started to begin. I just couldn’t do anything but felt alone & lost.
I took steps in all directions possible, soon I got lost along the way & I completely lead down. But I tell you there is some time in life where we fall down & we feel like having no strength to get back up. Then fear comes in, may be we have doubt in life, may be we don’t know for sure what’s going to be happening in future & it scares us. May be we’re worried about what people think of us, what people say about us. Just that, fear paralysis us.
For many many years in my life I have struggled through my own handicaps, handicaps like self-doubt, self-esteem, fear and questions of WHY’s. But there was no answer to why & you will never get an answer for WHY.
And it’s at that time we tend to lose belief in our core strength. We tend to forget the ability to overcome, forget the ability to defeat and at those times we all need to remind us that we are and we can be strong that we can overcome.
You will definitely lose hope, you will embarrass yourself or you will completely let down at everything. Some failure in life is inevitable. It is impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously. In that case, we fail by default. To get something you never had, you’ve have to do something you never did. Nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risk.
Later I started to ask how? What can I do now?
What supported me was, visual of myself, 5 years from now.
I choose to see myself, I choose to sit, imagine and do the things that I wanted to do. But the things that people said was I shouldn’t & I would be stupid if I do it. But my ideal me, the better me, I could see. I had a recurring dream, in fact a day dream and I was locked onto that visual. And I think that’s how it manifested me somehow. Maybe that magic does exists.
The dreams are impossible as they are meant to be, perhaps can definitely come true.
You can never find time for anything in life if you’re looking for time, it’s never going to be found. You have to create time. True success in your lives will be when you can manage your time, when you have the time to do everything that you wish to do in your life, that’s the day you will be successful. But one thing that will make you great in your life, beyond money beyond strength beyond anything else is your character. Know who you are, walk your path, know your truths. Character! that is what will make you great in whatever you do in your life and remember that status is not defined by what work you do but by how well you do. It doesn’t matter what you do, whatever you do, you do it great & that will show your character to the people around you. Be givers in life don’t wait for people to show you love, give love first, be contributors and whatever you want in your life will come to you automatically, perhaps give first.
How much more do you really need to see, to understand that life is more that needs?
Comfort zones are beautiful places but nothing ever grows there. You definitely need to take risk, to achieve great things in life. Risk is a factor in which you have more probability of losing yourself. But factors which makes you nervous to take risk will definitely make you strong and help you in achieving success, provided you put your soul and mind into it. Actually, it’s not rocket science, just try to understand the situation & try to analysis. You need to get mentally prepared & make yourself ready to take that extra step or effort to conquer. Nothing in life is without risk, do change your attitude towards life. Life is one thing you can never get back again, you should always make an effort not to squander a minute on such pursuits.
DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE HOPE??
You know when you get old in life, things get taken from you. That’s part of life. You only learn that, when you start losing stuffs. There are some things in life which are out of your control, that you can’t change perhaps you got to live with. The choice of which we have though is either to give up or keep on going. But if I fail, I will try again, again & again. But as long as I try there is a choice of getting up, it’s not the end, until you have given up. We can stay, get the shit kicked out of us or we can fight our way back into the light. We can climb out of the hell inch by inch.
Life is gift never to give up, never give up. If you just hang, if you just consistently keep moving forward with positive attitude, magic happens, miracles do happen. Impossible is nothing absolutely nothing. Make your story the greatest story ever told, we have this one life and we can make it great no matter what.
Life is an interesting journey!